Flirt with your partner to help her feel loved, important, and special.When you first start dating your partner, flirting tends to be more explicit, but as the relationship develops, it becomes more of a relational activity. A way to make your partner feel loved, special, and important. Flirting also helps increase your partner’s self-esteem. Use these flirting messages to casually tell your partner how much you love them:^[5]

• “Stop daydreaming about me and get back to work 😂”
• “If I lost my memory I’d marry you all over again. You’re just that amazing.”
• “10 pm. Bedroom. Be there!”
• “Hey hot stuff. You’ve got my heart on fire!”
• “You looked sexy this morning 😍 Can’t wait to see you later”
• “Call me, I would love to hear your voice, love.”
• “I can’t keep you off my mind.”
• “I didn’t think magic was real until I saw you.”
• “I didn’t believe in angels until you flew into my life.”
• “Have I told you how cute you look today?”
• “I’ve got to get to work but I keep getting distracted by the thought of you”
• “I’m so comfortable around you. I feel like I can be myself when we’re together.”
• “My passenger seat’s open and so is my weekend. Want to fill them up?”
• “How can I make sure we’re linking up more often?”
• “Like my shirt? It’s boyfriend material 🤣”
• “Do you prefer being big spoon or little spoon?”
• “What’s your cheesiest pick-up line?”
• “Dinner on me tonight? We can hit your favorite spot.”
• “I’m not flirting! I’m just being reeeaallllyyy friendly to my favorite woman 😇”
• “If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cutecumber.”

Keep a naughty spark in your relationship to increase intimacy.When a couple is regularly intimate and maintains a naughty spark, whether it be in the bedroom or over text, it can help reduce any lingering tension from arguments, increase your trust in each other, and deepen your emotional connection to one another. Use these messages to help maintain that naughty spark:^[6]

• “I can’t stop thinking about last night.”
• “I’m having flashbacks from the other night rn.”
• “You’re too good with your hands 😅”
• “I can’t wait to kiss you all over.”
• “Your brain is just as sexy as your body. And I need both.”
• “I cleaned up the bedroom, but let’s mess up the sheets anyway.”
• “My pants got tighter just thinking about you 😅”
• “You get sexier every time.”
• “Let’s bring some of your fantasies to life later 😏”
• “Let’s take it slow later. I want to savor you.”
• “I love feeling your body, baby.”
• “Come over tonight. Let’s be on our worst behavior 😈”
• “If you wear that black dress I can’t promise that I’ll be good.”
• “I wish we were in bed instead of at work 🙄”
• “I had a WILD dream about you last night. It was so good I didn’t want to wake up.”
• “I can’t stop looking at those pictures you sent me 😍”
• “Tonight’s all about you baby. All you have to do is sit back and relax.”
• “I can’t wait to kiss you tonight. I’ll start at your neck, then work my way down.”
• “You look so sexy on your story. Come over when you’re done with your day.”
• “We’ve been so active at night that I can barely get up in the morning.”